AUGUSTA -- The most important lessons in life aren't taught in a classroom, Holly Parker has realized during four years of high school.

The salutatorian of Cony High School's class of 2009, Parker reminded her fellow graduates personal responsibility and the fact that "the real world isn't fair" would present challenges to the class of 177 seniors. The graduates would also leave the familiar comforts of Cony High School and enter a world where uncertainty lies and they would have to make their own decisions, rather than decisions being made for them.

There is a silver lining, though, Parker said: "We survived Cony. We'll make it."

Though challenges lie ahead, valedictorian Erika Adams reminded graduates of the excitement that awaits the class of 2009.

The year, though only half over, has been full of "social changes of today's society," Adams said. "Gay men and lesbian women have the right to be married, America elected its first African-American president, and equal rights for women have come so far. I am excited to see what the future has in store for us, and most especially, for our generation."

Adams, who will attend Trinity College in Connecticut to study mathematics and neuroscience, said the future's uncertainty -- wars, economic turmoil, and a tight job market -- should be embraced, not feared, by the graduates.

"This is the generation that must find a path back to prosperity and decide how we respond to a global economy that left millions behind, even before this crisis hit," Adams said. "I've learned that with a little bit of an imagination and a lot of hard work and dedication, anything is possible."

The celebration, like most graduations, was not without an unsettling sadness. Phil Michaud, an educator of 36 years and a senior class adviser, gave his final address to the class of 2009 before his retirement.

"I've been at this job for 36 years, and one would think it gets easier to say good-bye. But it doesn't, and this year -- this class in particular -- it is even more difficult," Michaud said. "You people are the at the center of daily lives."

Michaud sent the class of 2009 off with simple, yet meaningful words: "We are all so proud of you. We love you, we'll miss you, and may God bless you and keep you safe."

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